What are your goals for 2023?

Nix

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So, mine are simple..

Stay away from Covid.
Get healthier.
Lose weight.
Save money for 3 things.. new teeth!!!! New Mac... and save more for my 50th birthday trip to Netherlands!!


How about you?
 

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So, mine are simple..

Stay away from Covid.
Get healthier.
Lose weight.
Save money for 3 things.. new teeth!!!! New Mac... and save more for my 50th birthday trip to Netherlands!!


How about you?
Finalize inheritance or go out with a bang, i see no other resolve in order to move on with life. I am tired of this.

I will try to sort out my health stuff, but i have 0 motivation.

I want to organize my data as always, but i kind of want to just delete it all and start fresh. i just wish i had an easy way to pick out personal pictures first and some documents. But maybe i can work on that in 2022 so i can delete everything in a few months.

i want to improve how i eat, sleep, drink and deal with negative emotions. but others keep controlling how it goes, i have 0 control over my life the last few years and i dont know how to resolve it without breaking the law.
 
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I want to organize my data as always, but i kind of want to just delete it all and start fresh. i just wish i had an easy way to pick out personal pictures first and some documents. But maybe i can work on that in 2022 so i can delete everything in a few months.
Sounds like a nice little project... starting a fresh is often quite nice...

I will try to sort out my health stuff, but i have 0 motivation.
We should motivate each other, I'm sure Joan will be up for a healthier new year as well..

i want to improve how i eat, sleep, drink and deal with negative emotions. but others keep controlling how it goes
It's time to gain as much control over how we react to the negative situations... hard to do though
 

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Sounds like a nice little project... starting a fresh is often quite nice...
I have over 3,8 million .png files alone from 2004 and up, maybe even older.

We should motivate each other, I'm sure Joan will be up for a healthier new year as well..
I am sure we can. ill try
It's time to gain as much control over how we react to the negative situations... hard to do though
yeh..
 

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We should motivate each other, I'm sure Joan will be up for a healthier new year as well
Definitely!

Must save next year too, my car won't survive another mot, eeekkk
 
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I want to read more this year too, and not just start books but actually finish then too!
 
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I buy way too much food, and I have to cut that down this year.

Saving would go much better if I stopped spending so much!
 
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I buy way too much food, and I have to cut that down this year.

Saving would go much better if I stopped spending so much!
Yeah I'll agree with that!
 

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Goal one achieved, make it to jan 31st, only to get rewarded with the inheritance bullshit from nov-freeze to jan-freeze to be extended from feb-freeze to march-freeze. .. sigh, now it's been 3 years since my dad died.

update; new goal for 2022, try not to give up so much that i .. give up. stay positive right/ ppl have been saying for 10 years that will overcome my depression etc, i had a few good months here and there,but since then i've lost family, friends, enjoy global pandemic, got social anxiety, heatlh issues triple, and ppl keep saying it will be alright.

i used to go from year to year, these days it's month to month .. and the bad news just keeps coming.

i have days where i want to have motivation to set goals, days like these where it's just more evidence of life being shit .. i dont have goals, my only goal is to make it to the next positive moment without giving up.

sorry for being a whiny bitch. luv you all though.
 
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Not lost weight yet but not tried :|
Saved a little bit of money but not as much as I wanted to as Abbs needs clothes and shoes! :'(
Done some holiday research to find out about how much I need to save o_o
Managed to stay covid free so far even though Abbs had it o_o
 

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I need to get a new battery for my scales so I know what I'm starting with
 

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I need to get a new battery for my scales so I know what I'm starting with
after 4 weeks ..

Day 1: full battery

Week 1: 90% capacity on the battery

Week 2: 73% capacity on the battery

W..
 

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I want to get back into making my own food, use the dehydrator, make bread etc
 

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Jan birthdays
Feb health stuff and apartment
Mar last will and apartment
April renovation in apartment
May probably still renovation and finances
June wedding
July ME TIME 100% - f everybody
August: inheritance boxes from dad and enjoying end of summer
September: ME TIME 100% - f everybody
oct: do whatever i couldn't do jan-april
nov: do whatever i couldn't do april-july
dec: family and health
 
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Saving is okay, but I have to get rid of the credit card, once that's gone I can save easier. I know I should use the savings to pay it off but I really need a new car.
 

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I never owned a credit card. But I agree, I've started to be tougher on myself and say "Do you really need this, don't buy it now, check again in a few days", and usually when I come back to a shopping cart my mood about it changed.
 

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One goal is to reach out for help. And another step was taken. Made contact with the company and they offered an extra help hour. And reached out to a friend of my sister and mom. Who was perfectly fine helping in May.
This year i have gone way out of my comfort zone. But it is paying off. Hopefully it is a good step forward.
With more help. I can get a but more ready. And a bit closer. To making some monthly help for cleaning and other things. And that should help me stay current with my lofe stuff. And have more free time to fix my stress and health maybe. Baby steps

i have to improve my life. I cant do it how it has been going with all this stress.
 

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We made progress because it looks like my brother agreed to the settlement to let this inheritance nonsense go, so we don't have to go to court, that's a first step to becoming happy again.
 

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Once I get the new car sorted, I'm going to start saving up for a new laptop, and a new electric toothbrush!
 

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Once I get the new car sorted, I'm going to start saving up for a new laptop, and a new electric toothbrush!
macbook pro 14" with m2 chip when they come out? :)
 
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