I need personal motivation. Someone come live with me.

Floris

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Yeah, that sounded a bit more sad than it really is.
But I am alone. And that's fine. I don't feel super lonely. I love being left alone.

However, I do miss the company that gives me inspiration and motivation. I don't have someone there to help me clean or motivate me to go out and hike together. Or go to events with. Or even help me do something together that requires a daily activity like learning how to draw for ten minutes a day.

I have so many fun and great ideas and things I want to do. But I can't find the motivation on my own. I would love to have a big book of papers and just draw a thing every day, write a thing each day, or make some music. But it's fun for a few, and it dies off. Nobody there to share it with or that sits down at the table with me and we do it together.

What I need is multiplayer real life.
 

Joan

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Yeah I get that feeling, but maybe someone online can help you kick start it, have a competition with them to help build up the inspiration again?
 

Nix

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Yer I kinda know that one too.
 

Elizabeth

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When school is done for me in June. Let's FaceTime and we could both draw something together everyday! Wouldn't that be fun?!:)
 

Tamie

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That did sound sad actually :D but I totally get what you're saying. I love being alone and spending quality time with myself, but sometimes it gets boring and I lose the motivation to do fun stuff. But thankfully, I have a couple of good friends that I can do that with. However, I wouldn't really want to live with someone...

Actually the idea of talking to someone online sounds good, have you tried that?
 

Floris

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Maybe it is a little bit sad :>
 

Floris

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WE WOULD WRITE SOFTWARE TO CONQUER THE WORLD!

and uh. automate all of the things.

f* it. moving to NL. HERE I COME!
We need Justin and Randy to join the pad, Justin and I talked about it for ages. But now he's getting a baby and probably married. haha :)
We need a man-cave apartment where we can just live comfortably and in style, share our resources and invest in awesomeness. Just sucks that real life will kick in, people meet people, money problems and having to move out, or someone just wants to leave, etc. How would you even start splitting up something you bought as a group.
 

Mikey

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God I don't know.. got that coming up in September :D
 
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