I am very displeased with the community, I rather post this here as probably over there it will end up getting locked like which every single suggestion and opinion ends up getting locked. I am sorry but I already see xenforo heading in the direction of vBulletin.. it is just so hard to share a honest suggestion.
If you get all butt-hurt that easy then you are going to have a tough go at be an admin. I know you are only 16 but you will have to have a cool head to have a successful forum. People are asses on forums - As the admin, you cannot be.
You will need to learn to walk away and not turn it into a stand-off. We all have bad days...you got to be smart enough to avoid posting replies when you are stressed.
This will all come naturally with age. I've seen some very neat things from you in your recent Board Messages add-on and other contributions over on the Xenforo Forum. I have witnessed your growth over the past several months. You are way more mature than I was at 16. With time, you will be AWESOME.
Just have patience. And understand that those are members, not staff. They have no bearing on the direction of XF.
More than anything I say hear this..SHAKE IT OFF AND FORGET IT! Don't make a big deal about it. If there's one thing I've learned as an admin, it's this: When things go south, don't try to restate my point, don't try and make others understand, don't try to win folks over...just walk away. Anything else just makes it worse.
Good luck to you Kaiser!