What are your goals for 2023?
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Finalize inheritance or go out with a bang, i see no other resolve in order to move on with life. I am tired of this.
I will try to sort out my health stuff, but i have 0 motivation.
I want to organize my data as always, but i kind of want to just delete it all and start fresh. i just wish i had an easy way to pick out personal pictures first and some documents. But maybe i can work on that in 2022 so i can delete everything in a few months.
i want to improve how i eat, sleep, drink and deal with negative emotions. but others keep controlling how it goes, i have 0 control over my life the last few years and i dont know how to resolve it without breaking the law.
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Sounds like a nice little project... starting a fresh is often quite nice...
We should motivate each other, I'm sure Joan will be up for a healthier new year as well..
It's time to gain as much control over how we react to the negative situations... hard to do though
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Ouch... is it because it's still screaming?
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Yeah I'll agree with that!
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Goal one achieved, make it to jan 31st, only to get rewarded with the inheritance bullshit from nov-freeze to jan-freeze to be extended from feb-freeze to march-freeze. .. sigh, now it's been 3 years since my dad died.
update; new goal for 2022, try not to give up so much that i .. give up. stay positive right/ ppl have been saying for 10 years that will overcome my depression etc, i had a few good months here and there,but since then i've lost family, friends, enjoy global pandemic, got social anxiety, heatlh issues triple, and ppl keep saying it will be alright.
i used to go from year to year, these days it's month to month .. and the bad news just keeps coming.
i have days where i want to have motivation to set goals, days like these where it's just more evidence of life being shit .. i dont have goals, my only goal is to make it to the next positive moment without giving up.
sorry for being a whiny bitch. luv you all though.
update; new goal for 2022, try not to give up so much that i .. give up. stay positive right/ ppl have been saying for 10 years that will overcome my depression etc, i had a few good months here and there,but since then i've lost family, friends, enjoy global pandemic, got social anxiety, heatlh issues triple, and ppl keep saying it will be alright.
i used to go from year to year, these days it's month to month .. and the bad news just keeps coming.
i have days where i want to have motivation to set goals, days like these where it's just more evidence of life being shit .. i dont have goals, my only goal is to make it to the next positive moment without giving up.
sorry for being a whiny bitch. luv you all though.
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Not lost weight yet but not tried 
Saved a little bit of money but not as much as I wanted to as Abbs needs clothes and shoes!
Done some holiday research to find out about how much I need to save
Managed to stay covid free so far even though Abbs had it
Saved a little bit of money but not as much as I wanted to as Abbs needs clothes and shoes!
Done some holiday research to find out about how much I need to save
Managed to stay covid free so far even though Abbs had it
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after 4 weeks ..
Day 1: full battery
Week 1: 90% capacity on the battery
Week 2: 73% capacity on the battery
W..
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Jan birthdays
Feb health stuff and apartment
Mar last will and apartment
April renovation in apartment
May probably still renovation and finances
June wedding
July ME TIME 100% - f everybody
August: inheritance boxes from dad and enjoying end of summer
September: ME TIME 100% - f everybody
oct: do whatever i couldn't do jan-april
nov: do whatever i couldn't do april-july
dec: family and health
Feb health stuff and apartment
Mar last will and apartment
April renovation in apartment
May probably still renovation and finances
June wedding
July ME TIME 100% - f everybody
August: inheritance boxes from dad and enjoying end of summer
September: ME TIME 100% - f everybody
oct: do whatever i couldn't do jan-april
nov: do whatever i couldn't do april-july
dec: family and health
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I never owned a credit card. But I agree, I've started to be tougher on myself and say "Do you really need this, don't buy it now, check again in a few days", and usually when I come back to a shopping cart my mood about it changed.
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I bought the battery today, stepping on the scales tomorrow. Eeekk
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One goal is to reach out for help. And another step was taken. Made contact with the company and they offered an extra help hour. And reached out to a friend of my sister and mom. Who was perfectly fine helping in May.
This year i have gone way out of my comfort zone. But it is paying off. Hopefully it is a good step forward.
With more help. I can get a but more ready. And a bit closer. To making some monthly help for cleaning and other things. And that should help me stay current with my lofe stuff. And have more free time to fix my stress and health maybe. Baby steps
i have to improve my life. I cant do it how it has been going with all this stress.
This year i have gone way out of my comfort zone. But it is paying off. Hopefully it is a good step forward.
With more help. I can get a but more ready. And a bit closer. To making some monthly help for cleaning and other things. And that should help me stay current with my lofe stuff. And have more free time to fix my stress and health maybe. Baby steps
i have to improve my life. I cant do it how it has been going with all this stress.
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Best of luck
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macbook pro 14" with m2 chip when they come out?
